3 Keys To Making Each Failure A Worthwhile Venture

I have reached some incredibly low points and moments that many would consider to be failures. Not convinced?

During my time in college, I was removed from my university after only my first semester and subsequently banned from campus until further notice.

At 18 years old, I slowly watched everything slip from my grasp. This led to dark twists in friendships, a repulsive lack of self-confidence and a future cluttered by my own personal turmoil.

As a teenager, I thought I had lost it all. There would be no high paying job, there would be no worldly travel and I was off my rocker if I thought anyone was to ever associate with me again. I had hit the lowest of the low.

Fortunately, the people around me gave me the opportunities I needed to prove my worth not only to them, but myself. I set out to prove my self-loathing thoughts to be incorrect.

I came to realize this is my game and I can simply not win by being on the bench. It was along this path that I discovered that my failures may not define me, but they sure as hell built me.

The word failure is quite subjective in the sense that a failure to one person may not necessarily be viewed as such to someone else. Failures teach you more than successes — check out the keys to a successful failure:

1. Have A Goal Or End Game In Sight

Having a goal in sight — an objective that you want to accomplish through meaningful tasks — is the most important step in any game plan.

If you can look at the moment when your progress began to halt or you believe you truly “failed,” can you say that you had an end game in sight? If so, stop seeing big red letters that read FAIL in your head and learn from this moment.

Individuals who just “wing it” rarely reach their goals because they never identified them in the first place. Having a clear goal in your head keeps you driven and allows you to focus on the small steps along the way.

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2. Understanding The Root Cause

One of the strongest tools we have for being capable of cognizant thought is to control how our minds react to situations.

When you have reached a shortcoming in your plan, it is just that: a shortcoming. There is no changing the fact it is a glitch in what you thought was your flawless plan and now something must be done if you are truly committed.

We waste too much time becoming angry, agitated and dismissive. Take time for yourself and write down what may have caused your failure in that instance.

Was it a personal flaw? Did something occur financially that was not planned? Maybe it was simply underdeveloped planning but at least you now know! Sit down, analyze weak points in the path and enable yourself to efficiently allocate resources to the issue.

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3. Willingness To Explore

So, you failed and you never want to try something new again. Did you try to break boundaries? If so, then I call bullsh*t!

There are far too many in the world who are comfortable with the status quo — far too many who are willing to sit by, have someone change the world for them and suck up all the glory while their legacies drift off in the dismal wind of time.

Doing something out of your comfort zone, larger than you but with a clear path is something at which I would be proud to fail. Picking myself up and falling, time and time again, making those necessary adjustments along the way.

You have undoubtedly heard quotes of famous entrepreneurs, like Mark Zuckerberg and Bill Gates, claim their numerous failures — Thomas Edison claimed to have failed over thousands of times.

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